Theres no doubt that tweens and teens are glued to their phones at every available opportunity.

Which Social Media Apps Do You Use?

Explain your reasons so that they understand where you are coming from and why you want to know.

Teen using phone in a cafe

Why Do You Use Social Media?

This may seem like a no-brainer to your kids, but it’s an important question.

Has Anything Youve Seen on Social Media Annoyed or Upset You?

A person using a social site on a smartphone

When they answer this question, be sure to listen without judgment.

Do You Know What It Means to Be a Good Digital Citizen?

Your kids answer to question three would have hopefully prompted some open discussion about being responsible on social sites.

Young woman using her smartphone and smiling

Topics that might have come up are cyberbullying (what is cyberbullying?

), privacy, respecting others, and effective ways to protect yourself online.

you’re able to also use the opportunity to teach them about good online etiquette.

What Do You Like Most About Social Media?

Do You Know How to Protect Your Privacy on Social Media?

Many people think that online privacy only means protecting your passwords.

Protecting yourself online is more than just cybersecurity.

Internet safety entails protecting yourself from trolls, bullies, scams and fake accounts.

In the worst case scenario, you might find out that your teen is being cyberstalked.

If this is the case, there arethings to do if you have a cyberstalker.

7. Who Are You Talking To Online?

This may sound like a nosy question, but it doesnt have to be perceived as such.

It depends on how you word it.

You could ask your kid about their social media socializing habits.

For example: Do they talk to people they know in person or people theyve never met in person?

If Something Bad Happened to You Online, Would You Tell Me About It?

so that ask this question, you will need to define what bad is.

Do You Think You Are Spending Too Much Time on Social Media?

If your kids are spending more time than they should online, there’s likely a reason for that.

Whatever the reason, it is important for them to check in with themselves about their social media use.

Or you might ask them to show you something funny theyve seen online and laugh about it together.